Ghanaian counselor, Counselor Adofoli has advised couples in his latest post.
According to the renowned relationship coach, couples should never give their parents to destroy their marriage.
According to him, some parents especially mothers, are destroying the marriage of their children. He added that these parents are always on phone calls with their children wanting to know every detail of things that happened in the child’s matrimonial home which is not the right thing to do.
His post reads;
“DON’T LET YOUR PARENTS DESTROY YOUR MARRIAGE
Written by Counselor Adofoli
I am writing this message with pains, in the sense that, some parents especially mothers, are destroying the marriage of their children. They are always on phone calls with their children wanting to know every detail of things that happened in the child’s matrimonial home; which is not the right thing to do.
Your role as a parent is to raise the child not an adult, help your children to become responsible adults and once they are adults you should allow them to stand on their own; leave them to make their own mistakes and learn from it. That is what growth is about. Offer them good advices when they ask but don’t force it on them.
Once your child is married, leave them to enjoy their marriage. That is the command of God. What you can do for this child is to support him or her with prayers.
Paying frequent visits just to know what happens in your child’s matrimonial home is an act of dishonour to the holy institution of marriage. That home is a private environment, it is not your home, don’t make your child’s home your second home. Respect that environment.
There are mothers who go to fetish, mallams, prophets, etc for all kinds of protections for their child who is married. Asking them to bath with certain waters they take from these spiritual men. Giving them all sorts of concoctions to be put in their husbands food, to enable the man love them. Such are acts of witchcraft and need to be condemned. Some parents need God.
They sneak their children from their marital homes without the permission of their spouses to these spiritual ambassadors to fortify them to “better” their marriage or enable them have children.
Marriage is from God, only God can fix the issues of marriage, only God can fix spouses, only God can transform lives for HE created them. He has the spare parts. The bible says “You, Lord, are our Father. We are nothing but clay, but you are the potter who molded us” – Isaiah 64:8 (CEV). God can remold us when His design has been tempted with.
No man or mallam or powerful spiritual person can do that. Any such attempt leads to damage or distraction or corruption of what the LORD has created. Your greater security is in the LORD and not in men.
If you can’t trust God with your marriage, then don’t get married for marriage is from God. Spouses should desist from such behaviours, it is disobedience to God. The bible cautions us “Stay away from people who are not followers of the Lord! Can someone who is good get along with someone who is evil? Are light and darkness the same?” – 2 Corinthians 6:14 (CEV).
All forms of medicine from these gods or deities have expiration date. The painful part is that, they expire at the time you need them the most. Their expiration leads to exposure to greater danger.
Anytime you go to these places, you are exposing yourself, your spouse and marriage for attack. You are opening the door to these entities; you are giving them permission to destroy you. Once they enter you cannot control what they do with such permission. Marriage is good because it is from God, if you focus on what is good, it gets better.
In conclusion “The Lord’s kindness never fails! If he had not been merciful, we would have been destroyed. The Lord can always be trusted to show mercy each morning” – Lamentations 3:22-23 (CEV).”
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